Feelings ....

Today i got an sms, after reading that it took a couple of minutes for me to come back. It goes like this,


one day a boy asked his girlfriend i am thinking its right time we marry, i want to marry you. The girl gave him a challenge to live a day without her. If he could then she said i will marry you. Then there was no communication, seeing etc., between them for 24hrs. The boy didn't know that the girl had only 24hrs life left coz she was suffering from serious ill. After 24hrs the boy went to the girlz home with overjoy holding a ring. He was torn to pieces knowing she's is no more. She had left a letter for him saying, "YOU DID IT & YOU CAN BE WITHOUT ME. DO IT EVERYDAY MY LOVE !! MISS YOU".

hmm.. can he do that everyday i dunno ..., the point which i was thinking, life never goes in the way one wanted. There are many things, which happens only after that we come to know and in certain cases we are helpless. Its quite complex. I was discussing this issue with my friend, he just told me one thing, "The world's most happiest person, never gets all the best things around him. He just makes the best of what he gets. " So always try to make the best of now. Is this really possible ??. Saying is always easier rather than implementing. We generally go down or get irritated if something goes out off our way. First we need to learn to be silent and start smiling. Silence is the best way to avoid many problems & smile is the best tool to solve our problems. Yea its quite true, when u see 1 yr or 2 yrs child smiling or laughing, for sure we forget all our problems and either start playing with it or just keep watching it. Hence smile generally makes onself and other more happier & comfortable with you. Hence i have decided to try smiling at situation which is not in my favour and think what best can be done. Its only a trial i dunno whether i would succeed ...